Are you a saver/keeper or a thrower-awayer? My mom and sister are are keepers, I am a thrower-awayer. My mom has told my sister that after she dies she better get to her house first, so I don’t throw all of her stuff away. I’m not saying saving/keeping is bad, it’s just not my style. There are several things that I am so grateful to my mom for saving… baby clothes, Halloween costumes, to name a couple. I do keep some things, but for the most part I chuck! It feels good to throw things ways… cleansing. There have been a few times that I look back and wish I hadn’t thrown something out, but so be it.
Evelyn appears to be a saver/keeper. I’m trying hard not to crush her spirit, but sheesh… she has a lot of stuff. We did a de-junking of her room today… all the drawers and nooks and crannies that she can stuff things in were emptied and gone through. It was tough and I let her keep some things, but she would keep EVERY little scrap of paper if I let her. I don’t want her to resent me someday for making her throw her stuff away, but I don’t want her to turn into one of those weird hoarder people. Not to be critical, but people that save that much stuff have issues. I’m just saying I don’t want her to have issues. As we were just about finished, I was sitting on her bed and could see something on one of her closet selves. I couldn’t tell what it was… it was a picture that she got in the drive threw at Chik-fil-A. You should have seen the look on her face when I told her she had to throw it away… Why that was such a treasured possession, I don’t know.